…it is called Self-love and not being Self-ish!
The best gift, or the biggest blessing you can give yourself is giving importance to yourself, the self-love. Don’t compromise when it comes to taking care of yourself. The more expectations to better yourself, the more your life blossoms. Because the best investment you can make is invent on yourself.
There comes a phase in life where you start feeling negative about yourself. Start questioning your ability and stop working on yourself. The moment you realize yourself surrounded with such negative atmosphere, that’s when you must take a pause in the main-stream, look around and start healing yourself.
Trust me, when you do what makes you happy, actually makes you happy! Even if it is once-in-a-week kind of thing, do it. And do it regularly. You will definitely find yourself at a better place than you were before. This will not only affect the thing you like to do but will also make you do your other work equally better.
Make a priority list and prioritize yourself first on that list. You should always know what you actually want to do rather than what you should do.
And lastly, appreciate yourself on coming this far in life. In the process of improving yourself and your way of life, do not forget to compliment yourself, admire yourself and even date yourself if needed. Because being positive is the first step of improving yourself.
Kumar Goswami
(Email: goswamikmr@outlook.com)

